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Do you love the work you do?

‘Do you enjoy your job? Do you love the work you do?’ Questions you maybe just be asking of yourself as you look to the future and the New Year ahead. If 2021 is going to be your year. Then maybe it is time to recommit to the work you are doing. Alternatively, maybe it is the year you change your job and pursue what you truly dream of doing to make a living if you are to set out to achieve the life you need to be living for it to be one of true success for you.

If you want to achieve true success in your work, then loving what you do will assist you in getting there. For you to love your work, it must reach into your heart in a personal way, to unlock all you have to give. “Love” is a big word. Therefore, while you need to love what you want to do and achieve, you do not have to love all of it all of the time: in fact, it is highly unlikely that you will. To love most of it most of the time is more than enough.

Every job can be tough, and there will be times when it will leave you tired, stressed out and complaining about it, regardless of how much you love it. That is just work and life.

If you want to have success in your work, you need to figure out as best you can what you love to do and are strong at, then go and put these strengths to work. What seems to come so naturally to you and it is as if you are not trying when you do it. This is what happens when you do something you enjoy, and which therefore holds your attention. To take time to consider which activities come naturally to you, where you feel ‘in flow’ and are able to focus easily on what it is you are doing. If you can discover what these things are, you can be sure that this will lead you to achieving success in your work as you have found where your strengths lie.

Until next month, when I will write more on this. Take good care of yourself and I truly do hope you and all your family get to have a great Christmas.

If you do want to follow up on what has been written here and living a life of true and real success for you please check out my books – available from Amazon.


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Is your health your wealth?

In dealing with the pandemic that we are now facing do you believe your health is your wealth? Many do believe that if you look after your health, then you will perform better, and have a greater chance of achieving what you want in life and work. Yet, so many of us do not take care of ourselves; why is this the case?

This month, with this in mind I would like to share a conversation from my book Conversations in Singapore.

‘Yes, for the most part, people do accept that looking after their health is so important, yet so many just don’t do it, including me.’
‘Why do you think this is the case for you, Michael?’ Parandin asked.
I took a moment to think. ‘I honestly go through phases of really looking after my health, exercising, eating properly, getting the right amount of sleep and rest, but what has stopped me from really carrying on and looking after my health is a need to tend to other commitments; or I get too busy and just don’t have enough time to do all these things.’

Parandin said: ‘People so often associate looking after their health and well-being with pain and discomfort – having to eat a proper diet, getting the right amount of sleep and rest, doing exercise, and so on. They often don’t think that the time, effort and energy is worth it, for there is so much else they could be doing – like more work, and getting paid for it, eating and drinking for comfort, and so on. Only, Michael, what probably stops you, like most people, is none of these things. What stops you is that you start to feel good about yourself, and this is something most people struggle with: feeling good about themselves.
‘So many start to take good care of their health but just can’t keep it going. One of the reasons for this is so often that their own subconscious saboteur stops them being successful. Those core beliefs that tell them: “You are not worthy of success”; “You can’t [change to: don’t deserve to] have things too good”; “Who are you to be feeling this good?”; “What’s the point? It’s all going to end in failure anyway – I won’t lose weight (or whatever).”
Knowing this is the case for you, Michael, you need to try to see that by looking after your health, you are investing in yourself at the very highest level; this is a real way of valuing yourself in terms of your own success and well-being.
‘Probably the greatest benefit you will experience from looking after your health – including the physical, spiritual, mental and emotional aspects – will be the development of your “muscles of proactivity”. Taking consistent actions based on the value of your own health and well-being, instead of reacting to all the forces that keep you from looking after it, will, first, enable you to believe in your own success and, second, give you the energy to achieve true success in all areas of your life.’

Take good care and truly do wish you and all yours the very best of health at this time.

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